Fancy Not Living like a Loser..

Over the weekend I have been thinking of our struggle to master the vagaries of life through our own blockades of mental fatigue, fixated minds and mechanical approaches.

As I sit down to key in my thoughts on being a loser in life, my thoughts go over to much of the journey that I have traversed. I ask this question, have I been losing and the answer was yes. I look deeper and I find that every decision that I take has not been mine and for what decisions have been mine, I never truly tried it hard. At one instance it was just another mundane transition of thoughts, but the more it came to dwell in me, I realized that I need to take control of my life, else it will be a life that I have not lived to my terms. From that time on, I have never lost the game of life.

I am from a school of thought that we have to be the best in whatever we do. Else, we are just wasting our time. We should be doing something else that will make us the best. That leads us to the question as to what are we best at? After moments of lingering thoughts, we let the thoughts fritter away in the obscurity of life and continue with our superficial engagement with life. I urge you to ask this question: what are you good at? Intense thought, will slowly give way to clarity of thoughts and you will realize that man or woman was never meant to be good in certain things alone. Successful men and women master the nuances of life and become successful in life. Simple examples are you cannot be a result oriented person, if you have a habit of failing and giving up. Life poses challenges at every corner. Some challenges can be avoided, but it would come back sometime again. How long can we run away from challenges? To all of you one advice is “Embrace the change and be the change”. It comes with some sacrifices and pain, which if endured, you will be epitome of success. Don’t be a loser in life by giving up at seemingly superficial thoughts that are shallow and devoid of character of strength. Be resilient, and conquer. Let not tiredness, let not fixed mindsets, let not mechanical approaches overwhelm you to propel you into the ravines of failures. The nature of giving up will be the scar in the face of your life and your mindset will be setting the limits for you.

Believe in one thing—we are limitless for we believe in our dreams!!

Arise from the quagmire of defeatism. Arise from the shackles of self -imposed limitations. Arise from the clutches of the mechanical claws of life. Experience agony and ecstasy of life, which come alternatively sometimes successively. Learn to live life and experience it in the fullest. Learn to channelize the God give abilities to chart out stories of success that generations after will draw inspiration from. Live life with excitement and joy of conquests and do not live in the desperation and sorrow of defeats. When you feel weak and tired - Remember, it’s a choice we made in life!!